What to say....

I have found that it is very uncomfortable for those around me to think of something to say when they have found out about a miscarriage.  I must admit, before I had experienced one firsthand I too did not know how to address it.  Okay, lets start by a simple " I am so sorry that this happened to your and your husband."  Secondly, offer to make a meal and drop it by.  The last thing I wanted to do after a D&C was make dinner!  Most of all, just give a hug and say that you are there are there if needed.  My advice: do not ramble, because that is when insensitive things are said!